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Why do most people care so much about what others think? Are they afraid of society norms?

Last Updated: 19.06.2025 15:23

Why do most people care so much about what others think? Are they afraid of society norms?

Ah, society and its norms—always looming, always judging, isn't it? Let me take you back to an incident that forever changed how I view this question.

The problem with caring too much about what others think is that we hand over our control to people who might not even notice us the way we think they do.

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